what is tantric massage
Similar with Tantra practices there are a lot of different opinions on what it actually is and what it entails. I feel the main misconception is that it is only a light sensual massage with a happy ending or a massage with intercourse. There is no intercourse in Tantric Massage. A Tantric Massage is a tool for preparation of personal & spiritual growth, other Tantric practices, intercourse with your partner or self pleasuring.
My sessions are a combination of therapeutic and sensual massages and touch, energy and chakra work and other Tantric techniques such as; fire breath, toning, Kundalini rocking ending with a yoni massage. I involve all of your senses working with your chakras, sexual energy, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual parts of your body. The purpose of my sessions are to open all the pathways, joints and energy centers so blood and energy can flow freely through your body. This allows you to orgasm more easily and intensely. One of the main reasons for this is the sexual energy (Kundalini) runs up your spine, through all the chakras and fills your entire body. This is called a full body orgasm, it can leave you feeling tingling, energetic and euphoric for hours, days or even weeks.
Therapeutic Massage: Therapeutic massage is so important for many reasons and has many benefits. All of these benefits contribute to an amazing Tantric experience, however, the main reason for including it is to relax the muscles and open all of the joints so you can experience a full body orgasm. It moves all of the fluids (including blood) in the body and lymphs making the body healthier and more sensitive. The hips, pelvis, and sacrum need to be released and open so the hips and lower back can move freely allowing blood, nerves and energy to flow to the genitals. This will allow everything to function properly and have more sensitivity. I use mostly techniques I learned in China but I also use basic swedish, deep tissue, lymph drainage, lomi lomi, acupressure, reflexology, Thai and many other styles depending on your wants and needs.
Sensual Massage: Sensual massage relaxes us, builds the sexual/sensual energy and arouses us sexually. When we become aroused our glands produce several hormones, neuro-peptides, enzymes, and other beneficial chemicals. As humans we crave and need touch. Just holding hand releases serotonin. The more we are touched, nurtured and aroused the more beneficial chemicals we produce and release into our bodies. All of these chemicals have positive effects on our body and mood. They are mood enhancers, muscle relaxants, pain relievers, immune boosters, they increase blood flow and have anti-oxidant and anti-aging properties too. For more information on these hormones and what they do please go to Beneficial Hormones. I use soft strokes, finger tips, body contact, dripping warm coconut oil, fire breathing, and depending on your comfort, I also use kissing, licking and sucking.
Energy and Chakra Work: Everything is energy, including us. An orgasm is also energy and for that reason, to have a complete experience there needs to be energy work. Our Chakras are our energy centers and play a role with our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies. Working and releasing blockages from our chakras can help remove harmful family patterns, old beliefs that no longer serve us, trauma, insecurities, physical pain and much more. Some people can experience deep emotional releases, they might cry, feel anger, rage, fear or possibly feelings of being a victim. All of these emotions cause blockages they stop us experiencing higher levels of pleasure in our bodies and also bliss in our lives. Look at the Chakra page for more information. I work with the Chakras and different energies by holding points, massaging, fire breathing, toning, anal stimulation, I use essential oils and sometimes crystals.
Tantric Techniques: What I call Tantric techniques are the fire breathing, toning, Kundalini rocking, anal stimulation and the yoni massage. Most of these I describe as sensual or chakra techniques, they greatly deepen the Tantric Experience. If there are any of these techniques I have mentioned on my website you are unfamiliar with, I give short description here. Techniques You May Not Know
The Combination: All of those techniques are very beneficial on their own, together they are absolutely amazing to experience in one session. It is not only more enjoyable and complete to incorporate all of these techniques, it also serves another purpose. If you just receive sensual touch and massage you may become aroused and release all of the hormones and chemicals but we only produce limited amounts without the combination. We begin to check out when we experience the same over and over, even the same kind of touch. Our glands stop producing and we reach a plateau. In my sessions I switch between therapeutic and sensual several times. In doing this it breaks up the mundane touch and flow. This keeps us present in our bodies so we become more aware and sensitive to the varied touches and sensations we are experiencing. It also resets our glands and when I go back to sensual touch you start producing more chemicals again. By the time the entire massage is done you are completely high on your own endorphins. This is why you lay for a little while after, you sit up slowly, I then give you water and sit with you until you are grounded enough to get up and safely dress yourself.
Finally let me say this. There is no "One" Tantric Massage. We have all learned from different people and we all have our strengths. My sessions are more massage based because I first started as a Holistic Health Practitioner. The Tantric Massage that I do, is the most complete and effective massage that I have done. I make sure that whatever reason or need you have for receiving a Tantric Massage, it is addressed in your massage sessions. I am always trying to learn new techniques, styles and ways to improve the sessions and I am always open to feedback and suggestions.
A Tantric Massage from Start to Finish: The Tantric massage session begins on the face and head before I have Aroma Therapy oils on my hands, moving on to Aroma Therapy massage. This awakens your senses with either cool and soothing oils or warm and invigorating oils depending on your needs. If you are experienced in Tantra I may have you do some breathing techniques or PC Pumps on and off through out the session. Next I work on the neck and shoulders opening circulation to your upper body higher chakras. This combined with over 100 acupressure points just on the face and head have an incredible calming effect on the mind and entire body. This brings rejuvenation and renewal to your face and mind with improved circulation.
Then I move to the arms, releasing all the physical and emotional tension that is built up in our hands and arms. We do so much with our hands and arms and hold so much in them, relaxing these areas can have a major effect on our entire body and well being.
I use hot moist towels to massage and clean your feet. I may even do a little foot worship. I want you to feel worshiped, to me, there are no bad or dirty parts of your body. Every cell is sacred and is able to experience pleasure. Your body is a temple and your feet are the foundation. They are so important and we need to respect, honor and take care of our feet just as much as the rest of our body. It is a great spiritual practice to wash and worship someone's feet.
Now I move onto the chest and abdomen. I drizzle warm coconut oil all over the front of your body, slowly spreading the oil over your chest, stomach, pelvis, legs and feet. I massage the chest muscles, up and down the sides of your body and then massage your breast and nipples. I use your Client Information Form as a guideline of how you enjoy your breast and nipples to be massaged and stimulated.
I then slide my hands down the center of your body, down your legs to your feet and back up to your thighs. I work on your left groin, leg and foot. I slide up you leg to the center of your body and softly stroke your collar bone and neck. Then I slide back down and massage your right groin, leg and foot. Working these areas helps keep you grounded, can add stability to your life and increase sensation to your groin and your whole body.
This time when I slide back up I do some more groin massage. I massage the perineum, along side the yoni and the outside of the anus while holding your heart chakra. Next I do some Fire Breathing on your yoni and toning. I continue with Fire Breathing up and down your body and neck. I end with light finger tip touch, bringing energy up from your yoni and Root Chakra to the center of your body and head.
I then have you slowly turn over, working on your back, relaxing and opening the neck, shoulders, spine and sacrum with additional techniques on the sacrum and lower back to awaken the Kundalini. While working on the back I do Fire Breathing up and down the spine and running energy down the spine to your clitoris.
Next, I move down to your butt and back of legs moving the energy and circulation down to your feet and back up again. After I have worked down the legs and back up I do Kundalini Rocking and a little anal stimulation (remember there no bad or dirty parts of your body). Then finishing as I did on the front of the body with light finger tips bringing the energy up from the yoni and Root Chakra, up your spine to your head.
I then have you turn over once again so you are faced up. I situate myself between your legs and place one hand over your Heart Chakra and one over your Root Chakra. I ask you for permission to give you a Yoni massage. It is respectful for me to first ask and it is empowering for you to give permission or not. Finally we do the Yoni Massage and Anal Massage ( If you are comfortable with anal massage and stimulation) to finish building the sexual and Kundalini energy until it climaxes into releasing up through your spine, all of your chakras and filling your entire body with raw and powerful orgasmic energy! While you are orgasming I will hold your Root Chakra (yoni) and channel energy up through the Root and all of your chakras. I try to guide the sexual energy you have built up to travel up through your chakras and fill your body with a full body orgasm. I use hot moist towels to wipe your body down and then cover you chest and yoni with warm dry towels.
You may or may not orgasm. It is ok, it is not the reason for receiving a Tantric Massage. Know that whatever does or doesn't happen is exactly what your body needs, is ready for and can process. Every session is different and how your respond will be different. There is no right, wrong, good or bad. Every experience is an opportunity for you to heal, shift, release, grow, self discover, and most of all just be in the present.
If the session is longer than 2 hours I may add some Thai stretching to effectively open the lower back, spine, hips and pelvis, body to body massage for increased sensual stimulation and Kundalini awakening or Lymphatic Drainage to increase circulation or more sensual techniques for more arousal and endorphin release. I clean and balance my chakras before starting the massage and use my chakras to further open and align your chakras and build the sexual energy.
What is a Yoni Massage?
If you have researched Tantra, you will have come across Yoni massage. There are two kinds of Yoni massages (Yoni is a Sanskrit word that translates into Sacred Space or Devine Space referring to a woman's vagina). The first is a Yoni Healing Massage and the purpose is to release any emotions, trauma, blockages or any kind of negative energy. All muscles and tissues in the body can hold memories, emotions and traumas that cause blockages. These blockages can lead to lack of sensation, vaginal dryness, painful intercourse, infertility, and even cancer. Also certain areas hold certain emotions. The clitoris can hold nervous energy, distrust, impatience and clench. Vaginal lips can hold fear of opening up, shame or the need to hide. The perineum may deal with difficulty of letting go or numbness. Then the G-spot (female prostate) may hold blocked energy from faking orgasm, performance anxiety or feeling inadequate, the vaginal canal can hold anger, neediness or trauma from childbirth, abortions or miscarriages. All of these blockages can contribute lack of feeling pleasure and even affect our everyday lives. Blockages in the Root Chakra can make us feel disconnected to our bodies, the earth or our lives. We may feel unbalanced or ungrounded. Blockages may also cause us to be fearful, especially of finances, the unknown or even change. Many suffer from depression or lack of motivation when this Chakra is blocked. A Yoni healing massage is a gentle circular massage with my fingers working gradually all around the outside and inside of the Yoni. When a numb or sore area is found light pressure is applied and you breathe deeply until the soreness goes away. This is done until every bit of the Yoni is massaged and cleared of any blockages.
The second Yoni massage is a Yoni Pleasure Massage. This massage is done to stimulate all of the tissue around and in the Yoni area to heighten feelings and pleasure. This is very similar to a healing massage except the practitioner is not focused on feeling for blockages with the intent to release them. Although blockages are often released during a Yoni Pleasure Massage the purpose is to stimulate circulation and enhance sensitivity through pleasurable massage. A Yoni Pleasure Massage can make intercourse more pleasurable, help achieve orgasm more easily or allow orgasms to be more intense and last longer. Another great benefit to a Yoni Pleasure Massage is to use the Kundalini energy for healing. This is done by focusing on building the raw and powerful sexual Kundalini energy in the first two Chakras and before you orgasm, setting the intent for that energy to travel through your spine and fill your entire body, especially any areas you may have discomfort or any condition you wish to heal. This practice has been very effective in healing anything in the body. A final purpose is for women to learn to be able to ejaculate if they wish. However this usually requires strong stimulation of the female prostate (G-spot) and may take several sessions depending on some factors: comfort level, blockages, fear of urinating (Many people think it is urine that is released but it is really fluid produced by the prostrate and has no urine in it), fear of letting go or releasing.
What is a Yoni massage like? Well it is like a massage anywhere else on your body. Except since it is a smaller area it is done with the flat part of my finger pads, not the tips, so it should never feel pokey. I use smooth circular motions which gently compress the tissue and move the circulation. I start with massaging around the pubic mound, inguinal grove (grove that where the thighs meet the pelvis) and pelvic floor muscles. Then I massage the outer labia between my thumb and index fingers. Next I massage the inner labia and then around the shaft of the clitoris and a little on the clitoris itself. Then I softly use my thumbs just at the opening of the Yoni and slide one up and the other down a few times. This gets the Yoni ready to be massaged inside and symbolizes opening up the Yoni and Root Chakra. Now I start massaging the perineum and slowing massage the opening of the Yoni. I massage up the left side and down, then the right side up and down. Then I massage a little further inside, about an inch, and massage up and down the left side, then right side again. I continue this process until I have massaged every inch of the Yoni. You may feel areas you have never felt before and all of the pelvic floor muscles (kegaels). Every woman's anatomy is different, if I can, I also massage as much of the uterus and cervix as possible. Women are often surprised how pleasurable having the uterus and cervix is. Once every part of the Yoni is massaged I continue to massage inside and outside of the Yoni, giving more and more attention to the clitoris, g-spot and other enheigthened areas. If you are comfortable with it I will also be massaging around, on, and once again only if you are comfortable, inside the anus while massaging the Yoni. Massaging the two areas at the same time can bring amazing pleasure and increase sensitivity of the entire Yoni. Many of the nerves and veins that are around and in the Yoni pass along either side of the anus. Massaging the anus stimulates these nerves and increases blood flow which increases the sensation inside the Yoni. I also massage the muscles and tissue between the Yoni and rectum. For more information on the benefits of Anal massage please read the section below. You may or may not orgasm, or you might reach orgasm several times. When you do I will focus on the energy and assist in directing it up the spine and through your entire body for a full body orgasm. The more often you receive a Tantric Massage this process will become easier and we will able to sustain the full body orgasm longer and more intensely. This is where the incredible healing properties of the orgasm happens. When you're finished, I hold your Root Chakra and Heart Chakra to consolidate your energy, increase health benefits and sustain the euphoria. You will be caressed with light touch energy and held while you ground down from your high ecstasy. The amount and level of intimate touch and caressing is always up to you. I am very affectionate and enjoy sharing that affection to those who wish to receive it, only to your comfort level.
What is an Anal Healing Massage?
There is also an anal healing massage. This can be extremely beneficial. The anus can hold a lot of emotions and tension just as the yoni can. We often hold tension in our anus even from childhood. Our first anal traumas are usually from toilet-training being taught to either “push it out” or “hold it in.” Being spanked may have caused you to tighten your anus and left not only that tension from tightening up but the emotions associated from being punished. During times of stress especially emotional and financial we often constrict our anus and buttock. There are also many more situation and conditions that cause us to store and hold tension and blockages in our buttocks and anus. Releasing that tension and all of the blockages is one of the most powerful and quickest ways to open the root chakra, awaken the kundalini, and allow you to be open and uninhibited. Learning to receive anal stimulation can be extremely pleasurable and greatly increases vaginal sensation, opens the root chakra, and moves the kundalini energy more easily up the spine. It will also assist in all other aspects of the root chakra; not feeling grounded, feeling disconnected from your body, situations like financial stress and problems, sexual problems, depression, and feelings of suicide or lack of will to live. Anal stimulation is also the best way to stimulate the T-zone which greatly enhances orgasm and sexual pleasure due to the dense concentration of nerves. Also nerves that control the Sphincter muscles of the bladder and cervix and other nerves throughout the groin. If you are not comfortable or ready for an internal anal massage we can start with light touching and massage just around and on the outside of the anus. This often enhances the sensations during a Yoni Massage and can assist with the building of Kundalini energy and take you over the peak.
The Yoni Healing Massage, Yoni Pleasure Massage, Anal Healing Massage or just Anal Stimulation can be done during a Tantric Massage. Tantric Massage sessions are done in 90 minute, 2 or 3 hour sessions. There is not enough time to do a good full body and Yoni Massage in one hour session. The 90 minute session is even a stretch but could be good for your first experience. The 2 and 3 hour sessions are by far the most relaxing and effective sessions leaving you with an amazing healing, spiritual and pleasurable experience!
Additional Options:
Sensory Deprivation: By wearing a blind fold and sometimes head phones your other senses are enhanced, increasing your feeling of touch, smell of Aroma Therapy oils and the sound of sensual music. This is a great way to deepen the experience and get completely lost in the moment. If you have a difficult time staying present this may be a great option for you. Head phones can also be worn to completely block outside distraction to go even deeper. Sensory Deprivation can be added to any session with no additional cost, just simple request it.
Sensation Massage: This is a technique where you are blind folded and use headphones. (Sensory Deprivation) Several different items are massaged, slid, glided and run all over your body such as feathers, furs, soft leather, fingers, finger nails, soft, firm and course objects. Nothing painful is done (unless that is something you desire and receive pleasure from) but the contrast of soft, firm and course stimulation brings your complete attention to your body and being in the moment. While anticipation of what is being used or what will come next is extremely exciting and arousing. Aroma Therapy is also used during Sensation Massage and foods (such as chocolate, fresh fruit) may be incorporated if desired. Sensation Massage is done separate from Natrual Massage or Tantric Massage Sessions because I do not want to get oils all over the feathers, furs and such. The body is lightly dusted with corn starch (dose not clog pores) to allow for a smooth and soft glide. Sensation Play can be in 1 hour and the 90 minute sessions, the Yoni Massage can be included as the last part of the session. This could be a different and exciting change from massage.
My sessions are a combination of therapeutic and sensual massages and touch, energy and chakra work and other Tantric techniques such as; fire breath, toning, Kundalini rocking ending with a yoni massage. I involve all of your senses working with your chakras, sexual energy, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual parts of your body. The purpose of my sessions are to open all the pathways, joints and energy centers so blood and energy can flow freely through your body. This allows you to orgasm more easily and intensely. One of the main reasons for this is the sexual energy (Kundalini) runs up your spine, through all the chakras and fills your entire body. This is called a full body orgasm, it can leave you feeling tingling, energetic and euphoric for hours, days or even weeks.
Therapeutic Massage: Therapeutic massage is so important for many reasons and has many benefits. All of these benefits contribute to an amazing Tantric experience, however, the main reason for including it is to relax the muscles and open all of the joints so you can experience a full body orgasm. It moves all of the fluids (including blood) in the body and lymphs making the body healthier and more sensitive. The hips, pelvis, and sacrum need to be released and open so the hips and lower back can move freely allowing blood, nerves and energy to flow to the genitals. This will allow everything to function properly and have more sensitivity. I use mostly techniques I learned in China but I also use basic swedish, deep tissue, lymph drainage, lomi lomi, acupressure, reflexology, Thai and many other styles depending on your wants and needs.
Sensual Massage: Sensual massage relaxes us, builds the sexual/sensual energy and arouses us sexually. When we become aroused our glands produce several hormones, neuro-peptides, enzymes, and other beneficial chemicals. As humans we crave and need touch. Just holding hand releases serotonin. The more we are touched, nurtured and aroused the more beneficial chemicals we produce and release into our bodies. All of these chemicals have positive effects on our body and mood. They are mood enhancers, muscle relaxants, pain relievers, immune boosters, they increase blood flow and have anti-oxidant and anti-aging properties too. For more information on these hormones and what they do please go to Beneficial Hormones. I use soft strokes, finger tips, body contact, dripping warm coconut oil, fire breathing, and depending on your comfort, I also use kissing, licking and sucking.
Energy and Chakra Work: Everything is energy, including us. An orgasm is also energy and for that reason, to have a complete experience there needs to be energy work. Our Chakras are our energy centers and play a role with our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual bodies. Working and releasing blockages from our chakras can help remove harmful family patterns, old beliefs that no longer serve us, trauma, insecurities, physical pain and much more. Some people can experience deep emotional releases, they might cry, feel anger, rage, fear or possibly feelings of being a victim. All of these emotions cause blockages they stop us experiencing higher levels of pleasure in our bodies and also bliss in our lives. Look at the Chakra page for more information. I work with the Chakras and different energies by holding points, massaging, fire breathing, toning, anal stimulation, I use essential oils and sometimes crystals.
Tantric Techniques: What I call Tantric techniques are the fire breathing, toning, Kundalini rocking, anal stimulation and the yoni massage. Most of these I describe as sensual or chakra techniques, they greatly deepen the Tantric Experience. If there are any of these techniques I have mentioned on my website you are unfamiliar with, I give short description here. Techniques You May Not Know
The Combination: All of those techniques are very beneficial on their own, together they are absolutely amazing to experience in one session. It is not only more enjoyable and complete to incorporate all of these techniques, it also serves another purpose. If you just receive sensual touch and massage you may become aroused and release all of the hormones and chemicals but we only produce limited amounts without the combination. We begin to check out when we experience the same over and over, even the same kind of touch. Our glands stop producing and we reach a plateau. In my sessions I switch between therapeutic and sensual several times. In doing this it breaks up the mundane touch and flow. This keeps us present in our bodies so we become more aware and sensitive to the varied touches and sensations we are experiencing. It also resets our glands and when I go back to sensual touch you start producing more chemicals again. By the time the entire massage is done you are completely high on your own endorphins. This is why you lay for a little while after, you sit up slowly, I then give you water and sit with you until you are grounded enough to get up and safely dress yourself.
Finally let me say this. There is no "One" Tantric Massage. We have all learned from different people and we all have our strengths. My sessions are more massage based because I first started as a Holistic Health Practitioner. The Tantric Massage that I do, is the most complete and effective massage that I have done. I make sure that whatever reason or need you have for receiving a Tantric Massage, it is addressed in your massage sessions. I am always trying to learn new techniques, styles and ways to improve the sessions and I am always open to feedback and suggestions.
A Tantric Massage from Start to Finish: The Tantric massage session begins on the face and head before I have Aroma Therapy oils on my hands, moving on to Aroma Therapy massage. This awakens your senses with either cool and soothing oils or warm and invigorating oils depending on your needs. If you are experienced in Tantra I may have you do some breathing techniques or PC Pumps on and off through out the session. Next I work on the neck and shoulders opening circulation to your upper body higher chakras. This combined with over 100 acupressure points just on the face and head have an incredible calming effect on the mind and entire body. This brings rejuvenation and renewal to your face and mind with improved circulation.
Then I move to the arms, releasing all the physical and emotional tension that is built up in our hands and arms. We do so much with our hands and arms and hold so much in them, relaxing these areas can have a major effect on our entire body and well being.
I use hot moist towels to massage and clean your feet. I may even do a little foot worship. I want you to feel worshiped, to me, there are no bad or dirty parts of your body. Every cell is sacred and is able to experience pleasure. Your body is a temple and your feet are the foundation. They are so important and we need to respect, honor and take care of our feet just as much as the rest of our body. It is a great spiritual practice to wash and worship someone's feet.
Now I move onto the chest and abdomen. I drizzle warm coconut oil all over the front of your body, slowly spreading the oil over your chest, stomach, pelvis, legs and feet. I massage the chest muscles, up and down the sides of your body and then massage your breast and nipples. I use your Client Information Form as a guideline of how you enjoy your breast and nipples to be massaged and stimulated.
I then slide my hands down the center of your body, down your legs to your feet and back up to your thighs. I work on your left groin, leg and foot. I slide up you leg to the center of your body and softly stroke your collar bone and neck. Then I slide back down and massage your right groin, leg and foot. Working these areas helps keep you grounded, can add stability to your life and increase sensation to your groin and your whole body.
This time when I slide back up I do some more groin massage. I massage the perineum, along side the yoni and the outside of the anus while holding your heart chakra. Next I do some Fire Breathing on your yoni and toning. I continue with Fire Breathing up and down your body and neck. I end with light finger tip touch, bringing energy up from your yoni and Root Chakra to the center of your body and head.
I then have you slowly turn over, working on your back, relaxing and opening the neck, shoulders, spine and sacrum with additional techniques on the sacrum and lower back to awaken the Kundalini. While working on the back I do Fire Breathing up and down the spine and running energy down the spine to your clitoris.
Next, I move down to your butt and back of legs moving the energy and circulation down to your feet and back up again. After I have worked down the legs and back up I do Kundalini Rocking and a little anal stimulation (remember there no bad or dirty parts of your body). Then finishing as I did on the front of the body with light finger tips bringing the energy up from the yoni and Root Chakra, up your spine to your head.
I then have you turn over once again so you are faced up. I situate myself between your legs and place one hand over your Heart Chakra and one over your Root Chakra. I ask you for permission to give you a Yoni massage. It is respectful for me to first ask and it is empowering for you to give permission or not. Finally we do the Yoni Massage and Anal Massage ( If you are comfortable with anal massage and stimulation) to finish building the sexual and Kundalini energy until it climaxes into releasing up through your spine, all of your chakras and filling your entire body with raw and powerful orgasmic energy! While you are orgasming I will hold your Root Chakra (yoni) and channel energy up through the Root and all of your chakras. I try to guide the sexual energy you have built up to travel up through your chakras and fill your body with a full body orgasm. I use hot moist towels to wipe your body down and then cover you chest and yoni with warm dry towels.
You may or may not orgasm. It is ok, it is not the reason for receiving a Tantric Massage. Know that whatever does or doesn't happen is exactly what your body needs, is ready for and can process. Every session is different and how your respond will be different. There is no right, wrong, good or bad. Every experience is an opportunity for you to heal, shift, release, grow, self discover, and most of all just be in the present.
If the session is longer than 2 hours I may add some Thai stretching to effectively open the lower back, spine, hips and pelvis, body to body massage for increased sensual stimulation and Kundalini awakening or Lymphatic Drainage to increase circulation or more sensual techniques for more arousal and endorphin release. I clean and balance my chakras before starting the massage and use my chakras to further open and align your chakras and build the sexual energy.
What is a Yoni Massage?
If you have researched Tantra, you will have come across Yoni massage. There are two kinds of Yoni massages (Yoni is a Sanskrit word that translates into Sacred Space or Devine Space referring to a woman's vagina). The first is a Yoni Healing Massage and the purpose is to release any emotions, trauma, blockages or any kind of negative energy. All muscles and tissues in the body can hold memories, emotions and traumas that cause blockages. These blockages can lead to lack of sensation, vaginal dryness, painful intercourse, infertility, and even cancer. Also certain areas hold certain emotions. The clitoris can hold nervous energy, distrust, impatience and clench. Vaginal lips can hold fear of opening up, shame or the need to hide. The perineum may deal with difficulty of letting go or numbness. Then the G-spot (female prostate) may hold blocked energy from faking orgasm, performance anxiety or feeling inadequate, the vaginal canal can hold anger, neediness or trauma from childbirth, abortions or miscarriages. All of these blockages can contribute lack of feeling pleasure and even affect our everyday lives. Blockages in the Root Chakra can make us feel disconnected to our bodies, the earth or our lives. We may feel unbalanced or ungrounded. Blockages may also cause us to be fearful, especially of finances, the unknown or even change. Many suffer from depression or lack of motivation when this Chakra is blocked. A Yoni healing massage is a gentle circular massage with my fingers working gradually all around the outside and inside of the Yoni. When a numb or sore area is found light pressure is applied and you breathe deeply until the soreness goes away. This is done until every bit of the Yoni is massaged and cleared of any blockages.
The second Yoni massage is a Yoni Pleasure Massage. This massage is done to stimulate all of the tissue around and in the Yoni area to heighten feelings and pleasure. This is very similar to a healing massage except the practitioner is not focused on feeling for blockages with the intent to release them. Although blockages are often released during a Yoni Pleasure Massage the purpose is to stimulate circulation and enhance sensitivity through pleasurable massage. A Yoni Pleasure Massage can make intercourse more pleasurable, help achieve orgasm more easily or allow orgasms to be more intense and last longer. Another great benefit to a Yoni Pleasure Massage is to use the Kundalini energy for healing. This is done by focusing on building the raw and powerful sexual Kundalini energy in the first two Chakras and before you orgasm, setting the intent for that energy to travel through your spine and fill your entire body, especially any areas you may have discomfort or any condition you wish to heal. This practice has been very effective in healing anything in the body. A final purpose is for women to learn to be able to ejaculate if they wish. However this usually requires strong stimulation of the female prostate (G-spot) and may take several sessions depending on some factors: comfort level, blockages, fear of urinating (Many people think it is urine that is released but it is really fluid produced by the prostrate and has no urine in it), fear of letting go or releasing.
What is a Yoni massage like? Well it is like a massage anywhere else on your body. Except since it is a smaller area it is done with the flat part of my finger pads, not the tips, so it should never feel pokey. I use smooth circular motions which gently compress the tissue and move the circulation. I start with massaging around the pubic mound, inguinal grove (grove that where the thighs meet the pelvis) and pelvic floor muscles. Then I massage the outer labia between my thumb and index fingers. Next I massage the inner labia and then around the shaft of the clitoris and a little on the clitoris itself. Then I softly use my thumbs just at the opening of the Yoni and slide one up and the other down a few times. This gets the Yoni ready to be massaged inside and symbolizes opening up the Yoni and Root Chakra. Now I start massaging the perineum and slowing massage the opening of the Yoni. I massage up the left side and down, then the right side up and down. Then I massage a little further inside, about an inch, and massage up and down the left side, then right side again. I continue this process until I have massaged every inch of the Yoni. You may feel areas you have never felt before and all of the pelvic floor muscles (kegaels). Every woman's anatomy is different, if I can, I also massage as much of the uterus and cervix as possible. Women are often surprised how pleasurable having the uterus and cervix is. Once every part of the Yoni is massaged I continue to massage inside and outside of the Yoni, giving more and more attention to the clitoris, g-spot and other enheigthened areas. If you are comfortable with it I will also be massaging around, on, and once again only if you are comfortable, inside the anus while massaging the Yoni. Massaging the two areas at the same time can bring amazing pleasure and increase sensitivity of the entire Yoni. Many of the nerves and veins that are around and in the Yoni pass along either side of the anus. Massaging the anus stimulates these nerves and increases blood flow which increases the sensation inside the Yoni. I also massage the muscles and tissue between the Yoni and rectum. For more information on the benefits of Anal massage please read the section below. You may or may not orgasm, or you might reach orgasm several times. When you do I will focus on the energy and assist in directing it up the spine and through your entire body for a full body orgasm. The more often you receive a Tantric Massage this process will become easier and we will able to sustain the full body orgasm longer and more intensely. This is where the incredible healing properties of the orgasm happens. When you're finished, I hold your Root Chakra and Heart Chakra to consolidate your energy, increase health benefits and sustain the euphoria. You will be caressed with light touch energy and held while you ground down from your high ecstasy. The amount and level of intimate touch and caressing is always up to you. I am very affectionate and enjoy sharing that affection to those who wish to receive it, only to your comfort level.
What is an Anal Healing Massage?
There is also an anal healing massage. This can be extremely beneficial. The anus can hold a lot of emotions and tension just as the yoni can. We often hold tension in our anus even from childhood. Our first anal traumas are usually from toilet-training being taught to either “push it out” or “hold it in.” Being spanked may have caused you to tighten your anus and left not only that tension from tightening up but the emotions associated from being punished. During times of stress especially emotional and financial we often constrict our anus and buttock. There are also many more situation and conditions that cause us to store and hold tension and blockages in our buttocks and anus. Releasing that tension and all of the blockages is one of the most powerful and quickest ways to open the root chakra, awaken the kundalini, and allow you to be open and uninhibited. Learning to receive anal stimulation can be extremely pleasurable and greatly increases vaginal sensation, opens the root chakra, and moves the kundalini energy more easily up the spine. It will also assist in all other aspects of the root chakra; not feeling grounded, feeling disconnected from your body, situations like financial stress and problems, sexual problems, depression, and feelings of suicide or lack of will to live. Anal stimulation is also the best way to stimulate the T-zone which greatly enhances orgasm and sexual pleasure due to the dense concentration of nerves. Also nerves that control the Sphincter muscles of the bladder and cervix and other nerves throughout the groin. If you are not comfortable or ready for an internal anal massage we can start with light touching and massage just around and on the outside of the anus. This often enhances the sensations during a Yoni Massage and can assist with the building of Kundalini energy and take you over the peak.
The Yoni Healing Massage, Yoni Pleasure Massage, Anal Healing Massage or just Anal Stimulation can be done during a Tantric Massage. Tantric Massage sessions are done in 90 minute, 2 or 3 hour sessions. There is not enough time to do a good full body and Yoni Massage in one hour session. The 90 minute session is even a stretch but could be good for your first experience. The 2 and 3 hour sessions are by far the most relaxing and effective sessions leaving you with an amazing healing, spiritual and pleasurable experience!
Additional Options:
Sensory Deprivation: By wearing a blind fold and sometimes head phones your other senses are enhanced, increasing your feeling of touch, smell of Aroma Therapy oils and the sound of sensual music. This is a great way to deepen the experience and get completely lost in the moment. If you have a difficult time staying present this may be a great option for you. Head phones can also be worn to completely block outside distraction to go even deeper. Sensory Deprivation can be added to any session with no additional cost, just simple request it.
Sensation Massage: This is a technique where you are blind folded and use headphones. (Sensory Deprivation) Several different items are massaged, slid, glided and run all over your body such as feathers, furs, soft leather, fingers, finger nails, soft, firm and course objects. Nothing painful is done (unless that is something you desire and receive pleasure from) but the contrast of soft, firm and course stimulation brings your complete attention to your body and being in the moment. While anticipation of what is being used or what will come next is extremely exciting and arousing. Aroma Therapy is also used during Sensation Massage and foods (such as chocolate, fresh fruit) may be incorporated if desired. Sensation Massage is done separate from Natrual Massage or Tantric Massage Sessions because I do not want to get oils all over the feathers, furs and such. The body is lightly dusted with corn starch (dose not clog pores) to allow for a smooth and soft glide. Sensation Play can be in 1 hour and the 90 minute sessions, the Yoni Massage can be included as the last part of the session. This could be a different and exciting change from massage.